And this is how cuckolding, or any fetish, complicates the notion of who is actually in control. For a fantasy that requires the roles of submissive males and dominant females, is the "forceful and lust-driven wife" really the controlling party when coerced into making her husband's wet dream a reality?
http://www.nerve.com/dispatches/ma/cuckold/index.asp?page=1 This type of stuff is very popular at work.
I think I'm past the point when someone's sexual fantasy makes me go "huh?"