Rewards
I got a wonderful surprise this morning when I left the house. My S.O. had already put the big boxes that needed to go to UPS in my car for me.
I need your help in deciding how best to reward him. I don't have a paid account so I can't do one of those fancy polls. Since I know lj users are very clever, I am assuming you will all realize you can just add a comment with your vote.
1. The best way to reward a male S.O. for a thoughtful gesture is:
A. Foot rub
B. Back scratch
C. Cook his favorite meal for him
D. "Other" *eyebrow raise* *eyebrow raise*
E. None of the above, S.O.s should do this type of thing for one another without expecting a reward
F. All of the above
Now comes the trickier question.
2. Should the nice man (fellow customer not UPS employee) who carried the box from my car to the UPS counter get the same reward?
A. No. A sincere thank you is enough.
B. Yes. Expectation of a reward is why strangers do kind things.
C. Depends. Was he hot?
I need your help in deciding how best to reward him. I don't have a paid account so I can't do one of those fancy polls. Since I know lj users are very clever, I am assuming you will all realize you can just add a comment with your vote.
1. The best way to reward a male S.O. for a thoughtful gesture is:
A. Foot rub
B. Back scratch
C. Cook his favorite meal for him
D. "Other" *eyebrow raise* *eyebrow raise*
E. None of the above, S.O.s should do this type of thing for one another without expecting a reward
F. All of the above
Now comes the trickier question.
2. Should the nice man (fellow customer not UPS employee) who carried the box from my car to the UPS counter get the same reward?
A. No. A sincere thank you is enough.
B. Yes. Expectation of a reward is why strangers do kind things.
C. Depends. Was he hot?