RIP Velma Bowen
I was very sorry to hear the news yesterday of Velma Bowen's death, even though recent reports had indicated this news would come sooner than later. When she announced in July that she had cancer, it very quickly became clear that the prognosis was not good. Only a few days ago it was announced that she had three weeks left at the most. It turned out she had far less than that.
I didn't know Vijay well, but I'd heard of her before I met her. She came to Vanguard parties at least a couple of times back when they were held in the house where Jane still lived with Vonda. On at least one occasion she showed pictures from some kind of cabaret or burlesque show she'd done in NYC, where she lived at the time. She was that relatively rare nerd who was also a sexual exhibitionist. I was a bit in awe of her.
I'm pretty sure it was after those Vanguard visits that she won TAFF in 1999. Her name continued to be relatively high profile within fannish circles, and I probably saw her online in those days, including eventually here on LiveJournal. When she and Soren moved to Seattle a few years later, I saw her more often and learned more about her interest in singing at piano bars, of which there were none in Seattle. We shared a taste for good beer (I still have a growler she left at last year's TAFF party), and she and Soren and I once met at the Big Time for a lovely afternoon of beer and geeky chat. Amongst other things, she told me she was related to another TAFF winner (and another New Yorker), Elliott Shorter, which I hadn't known before.
She'd had other serious health problems over the years. She also took care of Soren after his stroke a few years back. She missed New York, but she knew how important it was for Soren to be close to his family in his disabled state. She has died far too young, and I'm so sorry for Soren and for all who loved her. I did not know her well personally, but she was a key figure in our community. I hope she finds that piano bar in the afterlife that she could never find in Seattle.
I didn't know Vijay well, but I'd heard of her before I met her. She came to Vanguard parties at least a couple of times back when they were held in the house where Jane still lived with Vonda. On at least one occasion she showed pictures from some kind of cabaret or burlesque show she'd done in NYC, where she lived at the time. She was that relatively rare nerd who was also a sexual exhibitionist. I was a bit in awe of her.
I'm pretty sure it was after those Vanguard visits that she won TAFF in 1999. Her name continued to be relatively high profile within fannish circles, and I probably saw her online in those days, including eventually here on LiveJournal. When she and Soren moved to Seattle a few years later, I saw her more often and learned more about her interest in singing at piano bars, of which there were none in Seattle. We shared a taste for good beer (I still have a growler she left at last year's TAFF party), and she and Soren and I once met at the Big Time for a lovely afternoon of beer and geeky chat. Amongst other things, she told me she was related to another TAFF winner (and another New Yorker), Elliott Shorter, which I hadn't known before.
She'd had other serious health problems over the years. She also took care of Soren after his stroke a few years back. She missed New York, but she knew how important it was for Soren to be close to his family in his disabled state. She has died far too young, and I'm so sorry for Soren and for all who loved her. I did not know her well personally, but she was a key figure in our community. I hope she finds that piano bar in the afterlife that she could never find in Seattle.