Your spouse cheerfully makes a thoughtless comment that you find hurtful/offensive and then feels surprised at your emotional response
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Hehe, Sagittarians aren't exactly famous for putting up with melancholy moods :)
What are his other signs?))
Me and my husband are a very textbook astro match - Cancer/Aries moon/Virgo rising or v late Leo rising, not sure) and he's Virgo/Scorpio moon/Cancer rising/Scorpio Venus. I have soft spot for Scorpio moons now.
He's a Sun-Neptune in Sag with an Aries Moon and late Taurus Rising. He's got a Capricorn Venus though and he really has enormous emotional staying power - when he commits, he commits for keeps.
On the other hand he really doesn't have water in his chart (except for Scorpio Mercury) and I have no fire in mine (Cancer Sun, Scorpio Moon, Virgo Rising) so we kind of work in the missing-element sort of way. It's got its share of stresses because we don't speak each other's languages, but we both make each other laugh all the time which makes every situation better. ;)
Sag with Aries Moon and Cancer with Scorp Moon! Fierce and Intense :) Although yes, trine individuals tend to be often much more balanced and less stereotypical than they do look on paper))
And I don't know many other fellow Cancerians with Virgo risings! Although I am not too sure of my Virgo status as I'd happily fester in squalor and don't live by filing away papers)))
Hehe. I adore my Fire Husband, despite the fact that he is almost physically incapable of apologising for anything and would rather try to construct more and more elaborate defense theories than own up to having erred somewhere. On the other hand, he would probably say that he could learn to live without my sensitivity. ;)
I tend to live in squalor most days, since I'm too lazy to tidy more than once a week. (Also too knackered). On the other hand, it really drives me crazy when i don't know when something is, so organisation is more important than tidying.
(I can usually tell a Virgo rising because they have a natural way of feeling really personally offended when someone acts unprofessional. The other thing I've noticed is that people with Virgo rising tend to have naturally clear, good skin and when they feel anxious/upset their stomach starts to knot immediately).
Perhaps you can get a lj-tag 'living with a sagittarius')))
Virgo risings are so underrated that usually their Sun/Moon or even inner planets end up dominating it anyway, more like helping to tone down their Sun-Moon? Apart from actual Virgo sun. One of my first conversations with my then-future husband was like 'Are you not Virgo by any chance???' He didn't know what it even meant, so I gave him birthday range 23Aug-22Sept...I will not even describe the look he gave me. Though that's not how the rest of story went :)) And he's even worse at squalor than me, but does takes care of his own body.
Rarest match!
(Sorry to walk in here from astro community :)
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I've always had a weakness for Sagittarians as their cheerfulness tends to balance out my melancholy tendencies. ;)
What signs are you and your husband?
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What are his other signs?))
Me and my husband are a very textbook astro match - Cancer/Aries moon/Virgo rising or v late Leo rising, not sure) and he's Virgo/Scorpio moon/Cancer rising/Scorpio Venus. I have soft spot for Scorpio moons now.
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On the other hand he really doesn't have water in his chart (except for Scorpio Mercury) and I have no fire in mine (Cancer Sun, Scorpio Moon, Virgo Rising) so we kind of work in the missing-element sort of way. It's got its share of stresses because we don't speak each other's languages, but we both make each other laugh all the time which makes every situation better. ;)
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Fierce and Intense :)
Although yes, trine individuals tend to be often much more balanced and less stereotypical than they do look on paper))
And I don't know many other fellow Cancerians with Virgo risings! Although I am not too sure of my Virgo status as I'd happily fester in squalor and don't live by filing away papers)))
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I adore my Fire Husband, despite the fact that he is almost physically incapable of apologising for anything and would rather try to construct more and more elaborate defense theories than own up to having erred somewhere. On the other hand, he would probably say that he could learn to live without my sensitivity. ;)
I tend to live in squalor most days, since I'm too lazy to tidy more than once a week. (Also too knackered). On the other hand, it really drives me crazy when i don't know when something is, so organisation is more important than tidying.
(I can usually tell a Virgo rising because they have a natural way of feeling really personally offended when someone acts unprofessional. The other thing I've noticed is that people with Virgo rising tend to have naturally clear, good skin and when they feel anxious/upset their stomach starts to knot immediately).
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Virgo risings are so underrated that usually their Sun/Moon or even inner planets end up dominating it anyway, more like helping to tone down their Sun-Moon? Apart from actual Virgo sun. One of my first conversations with my then-future husband was like 'Are you not Virgo by any chance???' He didn't know what it even meant, so I gave him birthday range 23Aug-22Sept...I will not even describe the look he gave me. Though that's not how the rest of story went :)) And he's even worse at squalor than me, but does takes care of his own body.
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