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I am right now typing this post in MS Works because my wireless connection is deciding to be a bitch…eh no biggie.
Ok I am guessing you are all wondering why I am up this early in the morning and I know your first thoughts move to the point that I just haven’t been to bed yet and you are WRONG!!! DEAD WRONG!! Yeah you heard me. I went to bed last night and woke up this morning at 7:30 and started to get stuff done…why this sudden change you ask? I have no friggin clue but this long dragged out story might be why:
OK I am kinda sorta talking to, seeing, spending lots of time with, someone. Her name is Lisa, she’s really cool and she is totally OK with the whole labels are a bad thing issue I have. We call ourselves “two people who like to monopolize each others time” WOO HOO. It’s great that I don’t have to fall into those random stereotypes or the roles and responsibilities of a “girlfriend” Don’t get me wrong I am still the same respectful Siobhan that I always am, Opening doors, making dinner for her, telling her she’s beautiful, pretty, etc. (which she is) and just making sure I am considerate of her feelings, concerns, and her time etc.
So to answer the third degree questions that will come after this post, here is the lowdown: Her name is Lisa, she’s a massage therapist, and no she hasn’t worked on my gimpy back, for a multitude of reasons. We met online like lots of “the Gays” do we have been talking for a over a few months but just finally met a month ago. She is 26 almost 27, you guys know I could care less about age (she could be 48 and I wouldn’t care), but of course I pick on her about it (cause I’m a bitch). I have exposed her to the myriad of my idiosyncrasies, including my Pepsi Vs. Coke thesis, my love for all things Muppet, my movie quoting, and my soundtrack or ridiculous noises, and she hasn’t gone running in the opposite direction so that’s another plus. She had no problem with my “Pimp” walk or any of my other gimp issues. I am totally honest with her and she with me, I hope, We can actually discuss something without it becoming an issue and with women who knew that was possible. And even though I can be really stressed out because of how my life usually goes, she makes me feel ok, and has never made me feel guilty if I can’t spend time with her, It’s not often but still. And no KAT it’s not getting in the way of school…I might have been a little extra stressed but it was/is worth it.
Anyway this whole actually sleeping thing. I blame this on her, yep you heard me her fault. Don’t worry I tell her constantly that the blame for my newfound rest lies solely with her. Just to reiterate Me sleeping lots = Lisa’s fault. She is very in tune with her body and the body and energies of others. She can feel when I am stressed, or tired or whatever. Before we actually met we would both be up till like 6 in the morning texting each other etc but since we met my staying up is a thing of the past. I think its because she is so relaxed and in turn just friggin relaxing. I am not used to having so few hours in a day to get things done but it’s probably really good for me, and I don’t really mind sleeping especially if it’s next to her, but don’t tell her that.
In fact, she is asleep in my bed right now, so I have an opportunity to get some stuff done so I am off.. I have more to talk about but Two posts in one morning is the limit for me…
Ok I am guessing you are all wondering why I am up this early in the morning and I know your first thoughts move to the point that I just haven’t been to bed yet and you are WRONG!!! DEAD WRONG!! Yeah you heard me. I went to bed last night and woke up this morning at 7:30 and started to get stuff done…why this sudden change you ask? I have no friggin clue but this long dragged out story might be why:
OK I am kinda sorta talking to, seeing, spending lots of time with, someone. Her name is Lisa, she’s really cool and she is totally OK with the whole labels are a bad thing issue I have. We call ourselves “two people who like to monopolize each others time” WOO HOO. It’s great that I don’t have to fall into those random stereotypes or the roles and responsibilities of a “girlfriend” Don’t get me wrong I am still the same respectful Siobhan that I always am, Opening doors, making dinner for her, telling her she’s beautiful, pretty, etc. (which she is) and just making sure I am considerate of her feelings, concerns, and her time etc.
So to answer the third degree questions that will come after this post, here is the lowdown: Her name is Lisa, she’s a massage therapist, and no she hasn’t worked on my gimpy back, for a multitude of reasons. We met online like lots of “the Gays” do we have been talking for a over a few months but just finally met a month ago. She is 26 almost 27, you guys know I could care less about age (she could be 48 and I wouldn’t care), but of course I pick on her about it (cause I’m a bitch). I have exposed her to the myriad of my idiosyncrasies, including my Pepsi Vs. Coke thesis, my love for all things Muppet, my movie quoting, and my soundtrack or ridiculous noises, and she hasn’t gone running in the opposite direction so that’s another plus. She had no problem with my “Pimp” walk or any of my other gimp issues. I am totally honest with her and she with me, I hope, We can actually discuss something without it becoming an issue and with women who knew that was possible. And even though I can be really stressed out because of how my life usually goes, she makes me feel ok, and has never made me feel guilty if I can’t spend time with her, It’s not often but still. And no KAT it’s not getting in the way of school…I might have been a little extra stressed but it was/is worth it.
Anyway this whole actually sleeping thing. I blame this on her, yep you heard me her fault. Don’t worry I tell her constantly that the blame for my newfound rest lies solely with her. Just to reiterate Me sleeping lots = Lisa’s fault. She is very in tune with her body and the body and energies of others. She can feel when I am stressed, or tired or whatever. Before we actually met we would both be up till like 6 in the morning texting each other etc but since we met my staying up is a thing of the past. I think its because she is so relaxed and in turn just friggin relaxing. I am not used to having so few hours in a day to get things done but it’s probably really good for me, and I don’t really mind sleeping especially if it’s next to her, but don’t tell her that.
In fact, she is asleep in my bed right now, so I have an opportunity to get some stuff done so I am off.. I have more to talk about but Two posts in one morning is the limit for me…