Dec 02, 2007 22:57
I like when people I haven't seen for two years and are on relatively good (decent?) terms with repeatedly come to Boston from New York and don't call me or chat me up, despite staying with friends who live less than ten minutes from my work. I would be entirely ok with that person saying "Oh hey I'd rather not see you, I don't know if I can handle it" rather than "Next time, I promise" "I swear it next time".
I like it even less when the person randomly sends me a text message "Fuck You. Don't call me again until I call you" when I hadn't talked to them for days and then tries to pass it off like it was a mistake meant for somebody else. I don't think I've been anything less than friendly to her, nothing short of extremely supportive when I know she's been having some rough times at school. Its not about the sex or any of that shit either. This is a person I've been in contact with for the past 6 years of my life, through tons of the tough times I've been through and tons of the awesome, not to mention the roller coaster that's been her life. Six years that apparently mean dick to her. Apparently I've scarred her enough to the point where she doesn't even want to spend a half hour getting coffee with me.
Bitter? Maybe. Indignant? Definitely. Immature? Jury's out on that one.