With this wedding!

No, I don't want to change my wedding plans, but I think that this one is so lovely, and will be appreciated by so many of my friends, especially mercator_7, musique174, and all the rest of my steampunk/sailing/historical reenactor friends.

OK, lay them on me...

What wedding planning sites (preferably free) do y'all recommend?
And why?

I already have found:
http://www.theknot.com
http://offbeatbride.com

Thanks!