Comments | raekin: RL Issues

raekin

RL Issues

May 31, 2005 08:25

ok, well Im really into bringing up real life issues on my lifejournal about my gaming experiences, but its been bugging me for a couple days and I want more opinions. So last friday, my girlfriend (who is currently in france, has been there for 2 months, so things tend to be rough at times) signs on AIM, and you know, im happy cuz i barely get to ( Read more... )

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echo3347 May 31 2005, 09:08:43 UTC

I was just randomly going through LJ images (bored at work) and saw your Guild Wars pic. I play as well ;p My name on there is Master Ecco if you feel so inclined :)

seito777 May 31 2005, 09:22:13 UTC

Rae, I think that you did the right thing telling her alternatives to just "not eating" I don't know her so I can't really comment on her at all, but you should know by now that most girls are nuts about that and you just have to be cool about it, I do think though that you said the right thing with giving her other stuff to do about it, which in reality is way better for her body and her weight.

Maybe shouldn't have blown up on her near the end but I know how it is, just try to keep your cool next time you talk to her about it ;p

maybe maybe maybe bluecray0n May 31 2005, 11:38:02 UTC

is it that time of the month? o.O

you shouldn't have blown up on her. maybe she wanted you to just make her feel better or say "you'd look pretty no matter what" or something. girls are wierd. when she said she wasn't hungry or couldn't do that, maybe you could have asked her why or suggested something easier to start with. i dunno. one day of her saying she doesn't like the way she looks doesn't make her anorexic, perhaps you should tell her you got upset about it because you care so much? bleh. i'm terrible at this sort of thing. you guys have been together for a year, i'm sure you'll talk it out sooner or later.

are all her ideas really crazy? o.O

Re: maybe maybe maybe raekin May 31 2005, 16:06:37 UTC

"are all her ideas really crazy? o.O"

pretty much :D

anonymous May 31 2005, 13:59:10 UTC

Dont' worry too much about it man. Girls go through that stuff all the time, where they hate their life, their body, their lifestyle, etc. You just gotta keep being there for them and constantly reminding them that they are perfect the way they are. And instead of flat out saying what they should do, you could maybe drop hints or something. Girls are too difficult :(

motsu June 1 2005, 04:12:41 UTC

pffff.. girls never want to listen to common sense when it comes to losing weight / "getting in shape". for the most part, they think starvation is key =\

what you said is right though, eating is actually one of the most important things to do.. otherwise your body will start storing the fat, and you'll just gradually lose muscle and look retarded (well, then you'll lose fat too and just look anorexic).

you said the right thing, you know it'll blow over - so no worries.