That's the end of that then

[qwill]

He called and woke me up last night for our talk. Turns out he didnt mean it. At some point he "changed his mind" and didn't tell me. So he came here and lied to me and my family and friends. So we're broken up permenantly now. for clarification, I was not talking about breaking up permenantly. I was thinking temporarily since it was obvious he can

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[happynoodlehead]

i totally agree with you on the definition of abandonment there.

[ichigumi]

Oh honey, I'm sorry :(
:::::HUG:::::

Kick in the head

[anonymous]

So sorry to read the previous and then this entry.

I got prickly when hearing about the Boston thing out of the blue,
and that he was chasing after his brother (again?).
Considering your pending move et. al.

BTW, most folk who try to tell you they know God's plan are delusional. He told me so. :)

What God would want, wouldn't you think, is that good comes of things.
His judgment of good, which may not always be pleasant to us'ns down here in the near term.
Look at what happened to Jesus. Not fun, but 'according to plan' and 'for the good of mankind'.

That People screw things up is their doing. Which is accountable. On them.

Deep sigh... "This too will pass"
In this case kinda like a turd.

It's your life to live. Get on with it. Don't be or act stupid.
quote grandma: "Be Healed"

Darn nonetheless.

you-know-who.

[sempre_nudo]

At least it's over with and you know where you stand. Always a good place to be. Uncertainty, especially when dealing with another person (because people are fickle) is awful.

So, next adventure, let us know what happens with the other chap who seems to treat you much better.

[qwill]

i gots evil and ben (sir_puppettron) so far/held over from being poly. but they are not interested in marriage, which is apparently what I want. Or some other kind of formal long term agreement.

[sempre_nudo]

I don't quite understand if you are saying they are not into the poly thing or what. If they aren't, poor things. Personally, I think more people should be open to polyamorous arrangements. Seriously, even if you REALLY love a person, being able to share intimacy with other people (because you don't just love that one person, you still can have strong love for others) is a good thing. The lack of it is really why a lot of relationships end. Funny.

This reminds me of an ad I saw for that STUPID Bravo show that I don't watch, "Million Dollar Listing", where a girl asked one of the young guy realtors if he was gay or bi, and his response was that he was polyamorous. I wanted to wring his stupid little neck. He seriously doesn't know what polyamorous really means. Stupid.

[qwill]

they're not into marriage.