Mar 13, 2011 11:02
our best friends are best, because they are. they always will be and if they have instances of not, then they will be forgiven due to the fact they will ask for it & it will be out of character - not a regular occurrence.
Those people who show true friendship on an irregular basis - in other words 20% (or less) of time - are not friends. and shouldn't be given the opportunity to invade your precious time. They wont change, that is simply who they are.
As has been brought to our attention recently with first Christchurch & then Japan, our time is precious, we only have so much & no one knows how much. So I suggest we make the most of what we have.
Surround ourselves with people who are good to us & if you cant get rid of the rest, at least try to ignore them as much as possible. enjoy the people who are good. Be one of the good ones.
Try new things - keep doing the ones you like.
While it is tempting (oh so tempting) to inflict revenge ask if this is the best use of YOUR time? more than likely the person would not notice nor care.
Live life, like you have a month left.
And so, my daughter's Dad has decided to live in Brisbane. Not see her once a fortnight - but of course he will call & write letters & pay child support. oh well, once a loser, always a loser.