decisions
i've always given my husband the choice of things to do. he's never had to give up n e body for me and it's b/c i didn't want him to go sneaking around behind my back. well i guess cheating constitutes going around behind my back. even though this girl caused us problems before i never told or even asked him to stop talking to her. well since it seems like he's gonna go sneaking around behind my back n e way then it's my turn. i'm gonna give him an ultimatum about christy. he told me that he is still having alot of guilt about that but yet he is still friends with her. i never asked him to quit talking to her b/c i didn't wanna feel like a fool if he went behind my back and did it. well that's all changed. i've made up my mind. he's gonna quit talking to her and i'm gonna confront her too and tell her to quit calling. and i mean it. it's tearing me apart. i didn't want this to tear me and him apart but it looks like this is what is happening. i'm gonna talk to him and tell him he's gotta make a choice. and i am prepared for the consequences either way...............ME OR HER!!!!!!!!!! i can't live like this i am so miserable and it is effecting my life. i know he has to deal with that guilt for the rest of his life but i have to deal with it too. with the fact that he had his lips on another woman that he was touching her. this is what i have to deal with and i can't!!!!!!! it is very hard for me to get over this. oh god someone please give me some advice. i feel like i've given and given and never had the chance to take. it's always been me that's has given up things. i love him so much but my sanity depends upon this.