The Photoshop Boys
My, my, my..another wonderment.
What are some of us girls to do? We may like certain things that most other girls might not. We may not like certain things that most other girls would. We are who we are. But do guys know who we are? I've been coming to think that the answer is no. I've been coming to think that the girls that act as girls are the ones that get noticed. They're the ones that get the special attention. They're the ones that get taken to the Western World, the ones you relocate miles & miles away for, the ones you sing about. They're the ones that get special treatment, even after they have left you and ripped your heart out. After all, a heterosexual guy wants a GIRL as a Lover, not someone who resembles their male friends. What about the girls in-between? The ones who aren't girly girls, but who aren't complete tomboys either. Are we forever to remain in that Friend category with our Lovers? A sexy friend mind you, but friend only.
(sigh)
Or is it that guys get all special-ed out? Hmm...perhaps! They have exhausted their romantic powers on someone else. Now that it's your turn they are all out! Voilà! Didn't you get the memo? Didn't you know that they got with you to try to get over someone else? This is not a real relationship! Hahaha! Silly you!! Real relationships are for girls.
So what's our fate to be? Should we all turn into lesbians then? That's one way of doing things. We can unlearn how to feel. That way, if we get hurt on a continuous scale we'd be unable to feel it. Or we can start to realize that by blaming others, we are getting nowhere real fast. BUT by blaming yourself, you get nowhere even faster.
What are some of us girls to do? We may like certain things that most other girls might not. We may not like certain things that most other girls would. We are who we are. But do guys know who we are? I've been coming to think that the answer is no. I've been coming to think that the girls that act as girls are the ones that get noticed. They're the ones that get the special attention. They're the ones that get taken to the Western World, the ones you relocate miles & miles away for, the ones you sing about. They're the ones that get special treatment, even after they have left you and ripped your heart out. After all, a heterosexual guy wants a GIRL as a Lover, not someone who resembles their male friends. What about the girls in-between? The ones who aren't girly girls, but who aren't complete tomboys either. Are we forever to remain in that Friend category with our Lovers? A sexy friend mind you, but friend only.
(sigh)
Or is it that guys get all special-ed out? Hmm...perhaps! They have exhausted their romantic powers on someone else. Now that it's your turn they are all out! Voilà! Didn't you get the memo? Didn't you know that they got with you to try to get over someone else? This is not a real relationship! Hahaha! Silly you!! Real relationships are for girls.
So what's our fate to be? Should we all turn into lesbians then? That's one way of doing things. We can unlearn how to feel. That way, if we get hurt on a continuous scale we'd be unable to feel it. Or we can start to realize that by blaming others, we are getting nowhere real fast. BUT by blaming yourself, you get nowhere even faster.