Apparently I'm not the kind of person people actually want to be friends with. At first I play it cool and aloof. Occasionally, someone sees through that to my quirky sense of humour and we're friends for a little while. Then eventually they just spend time with me out of some twisted sense of duty until my usefulness wears away or my annoyingness
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However if this is about what I think it might be about, you might be thinking along the wrong lines. Everyone can be very friendly and deserving of praise, making life far better for their friends. I know that my sarcasm and critical eye tends to make friends dread me as much as they have fun with me - luckily that means my friends know when they want to hang out and when they are just plain tired.
The best way to deal with my own self-criticism, I find, is to wonder, "Okay, so I know this person liked me in the past...so while I was being awesome, what did I do that was so awful that I pissed them off?" Nobody is perfect and you might just be surprised when you think about it.
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