Comments | putali: don't be crushed

putali

don't be crushed

Jun 08, 2004 22:09

In high school, I did not experience the sensation of having a large group of friends with whom to hang out. Instead, I was one of those girls who had, at any given moment, just a spattering of tenuous acquaintances and one best friend.

That one best friend was usually manipulative and needy.

Now, granted, I was pretty insecure in those days. ( Read more... )

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cheekygremlin June 10 2004, 05:27:00 UTC

2 girlfriends? 2? I know one but whos the other? Wow, you're gaining them and I'm losing them. Empowering for both of us, I'm sure.

putali June 10 2004, 15:20:23 UTC

I think the one you think you already know about is the Canadian on assignment down here, yes? And the other is a woman I work with... the one I told my heart chakra story to. I'm trying REALLY hard to not let my knee jerk forward and boot their butts outta my space. Cuz, you know, it's kinda cool to have female friends. When chick energy is great, it's really really great.

diverged June 12 2004, 17:34:36 UTC

"When chick energy is great, it's really really great."

Dammit, why'd you have to get porn music in my head at the end of all this profundity?

diverged June 12 2004, 17:41:31 UTC

I'm forgetful, obviously, but I doubt you've explained your social distance to me in this depth. The logic and clarity are most striking. Your reasons parallel some (though certainly not all) of the most important factors in my RL nonsociality.

You know, I can be a girlfriend. I swear, I've estrogen to burn. Think it over. :P