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Feb 02, 2005 21:55

It has been said that love is the measure by which another person's happiness becomes necessary to our own. If we truly love someone, we want them to be happy, fulfilled, to pursue their dreams and become everything wonderful that we see in them ( Read more... )

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onceortwice February 19 2005, 14:58:34 UTC

i found your journal, friend of a friend of a friend kind-of thing.
i've recently found myself in a similar situation that you were in not too long ago (in love with a married man) however i'm not married myself.

i don't know if you have "friends only" posts but i'd like to read if you'd allow me, to see how you handled the frustrations that come along with this relationship..

i've friended you, so you can see what's happened with me so far - although i haven't posted a lot of details, too many critics.

purplemidnite February 20 2005, 10:57:01 UTC

I do indeed have mostly friends only posts, especially the ones about the boyfriend. His wife has been reading my journal. I locked everything up when she started using it against him in their divorce. They can't subpoena what they can't see. *g*

It does look like we have a lot in common, though most of my friends here were supportive about the "dating a married man" thing. Truly, I'm not sure I would have had the courage to stick with it without them. If you go back far enough (and actually were interested) you would also find some of my struggles with being a submissive and what that was like, too.

Welcome, stephanie. It's been a weird three years for me, but I like to think it makes interesting reading. Now that life has settled down, I don't post as much, cause just repeating how happy I am every day seems a little dull. Enjoy.

onceortwice February 20 2005, 11:42:35 UTC

Thank you so much for letting me in... I truly appriciate it.

RE: anonymous purplemidnite March 5 2005, 10:09:01 UTC

Yeah, didn't think so. Anonymous posters are such chickenshits.

beccak1961 June 11 2005, 06:53:34 UTC

I surfed over from peterpumpkin, and although much of what you said is so true, one thing really stuck out for me. I'm addicted to judge shows and over and over someone is being sued in situations where I'd be "here, take your stuff and never ever bother me again." I think escaping would be worth so much more than anything material.