This is going to be a potentially controversial and polarizing post. Most of it will be behind a cut. It will be poorly organized, because I'm at work and have real work to be doing, but it's weighing heavily on my mind, and I want to say something.
I wrote the following in a comment on another's LiveJournal:I would not let my daughter be part
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That said: at that age, I was looking for a boyfriend MY AGE. At most, I practiced verbal fencing with older men, and learned as much about evasion as seduction. For some young girls, the problem is self-correcting. For the ones most in danger, I think the problem isn't just the suave older guy, but the lack of self-confidence in the girl herself-- and that makes her prey to predators in any circle. Having "older brother" types in the crowd to watch out for the younguns is wonderful, and useful, but you can't be there when she's walking to her car, either.
This is all a long way of saying, I agree with your observations, I don't think you're being chauvinist by expressing the concern, and the ways YOU want to treat the younger dancers are great. At the least, you are an example of a gentleman that the girls can compare the slimy ones against and find the others lacking.
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^ this ^
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It was not lost on me that some men, my age and older, were more interested in 16-year-olds.
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