Update
Well things are getting better. Erica and I are doing alot better. We got a new apartment (right across the street from the townhouse we used to live in heh. My job is going well. I really like the people I work with and the management there is very good at helping me keep my life and my goals (both work and personal) in working order. All in all in a short couple of weeks things have done a real turn around. Life is getting better and I am no longer just going along for the ride. I actually have something to do with it. I feel that I am making the right choices at the moment and plan to continue to do so.