Dear Internet Douche
If you are going to use the internet to get on chat sites, even if you have limited time to spend online, don't be an aloof douchebag. If someone messages you and you aren't interested in them, you could at least say "thanks for the message, I am rarely online and replies may be delayed" as a way to acknowledge their existence without saying "and I dont want to talk to you" but even that would be kinder than simply ignoring messages until they complain that you are being rude. Cause *then* when you finally respond and give some lame excuse as to why they shouldn't take it personal and "its the internet for Christ' sake" you can go fuck yourself, it's far too late to justify your actions. If you didn't care enough to actually respond when friendly conversation was offered, why do you care to defend yourself from accusations of douchebaggery? Just take it like a man and keep hitting delete.