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so being a teenager, and almost an adult
its important for us to try things right?
like risk things, make mistakes while we can...screw up
becuase if we don't test the boundaries now while the consequences are serious enough to matter but still not serious enough to screw up our entire lives, we'll test them when we shouldn't....or maybe we won't test them
both of which are bad for us development as humans I've decided
if we screw up bad enough later and we're not prepared to handle it that's not good..but if we never risk, never try we can never achieve either and then we're also stuck living a substandard life
I think maybe ppl should try not to control everything else, I think they should try to realize that ppl do things in their own time, and maybe that it is absolutely vital to their very existance that they do something crazy every now and then, and that maybe that doesn't change who they are...no one's perfect right? but its not enough to one day accept your own imperfections you can't have standards of perfection for other human beings because then how the heck can you have a relationship with them?!
I think I'm capable of making a lot of decisions on my own...that doesn't mean I'll make the right ones, but I don't think I need anyone else to make them for me either. when ppl hold others back it usually doesn't help them because whether or not they're trapped in a cage in freaking heaven or hell they're going to want to know what lies beyond. Because living someone else's perfect life isn't the same as living a life at all
and I'm rambling
and idk what I'm saying
lo siento
its important for us to try things right?
like risk things, make mistakes while we can...screw up
becuase if we don't test the boundaries now while the consequences are serious enough to matter but still not serious enough to screw up our entire lives, we'll test them when we shouldn't....or maybe we won't test them
both of which are bad for us development as humans I've decided
if we screw up bad enough later and we're not prepared to handle it that's not good..but if we never risk, never try we can never achieve either and then we're also stuck living a substandard life
I think maybe ppl should try not to control everything else, I think they should try to realize that ppl do things in their own time, and maybe that it is absolutely vital to their very existance that they do something crazy every now and then, and that maybe that doesn't change who they are...no one's perfect right? but its not enough to one day accept your own imperfections you can't have standards of perfection for other human beings because then how the heck can you have a relationship with them?!
I think I'm capable of making a lot of decisions on my own...that doesn't mean I'll make the right ones, but I don't think I need anyone else to make them for me either. when ppl hold others back it usually doesn't help them because whether or not they're trapped in a cage in freaking heaven or hell they're going to want to know what lies beyond. Because living someone else's perfect life isn't the same as living a life at all
and I'm rambling
and idk what I'm saying
lo siento