Just as a general principle, you shouldn't change yourself in attempt to be more "dateable." You can try to change to become a better person overall, but don't do it just because you think it'll make people want to go out with you. There is so much more to life than that.
As for specifics... a lot of those are little things that wouldn't stop someone if they really wanted to date you.
The thing about you is, unlike a lot of people, you're actually assertive and ask people out. This can be a good thing and a bad thing... you gotta find a happy medium. Obviously there's going to be some rejection. I also get the impression that you've built up a reputation for dating really insane girls, and you've gone through a lot of them... and that's really not appealing. Nobody wants to become just another one of Cyrus' psycho ex-girlfriends.
Think about this: has every girl you've ever asked out really been that special to you? Or is it just that you want to be with someone and they just happen to fit the bill?
Just as a general principle, you shouldn't change yourself in attempt to be more "dateable." You can try to change to become a better person overall, but don't do it just because you think it'll make people want to go out with you. There is so much more to life than that.
As for specifics... a lot of those are little things that wouldn't stop someone if they really wanted to date you.
The thing about you is, unlike a lot of people, you're actually assertive and ask people out. This can be a good thing and a bad thing... you gotta find a happy medium. Obviously there's going to be some rejection. I also get the impression that you've built up a reputation for dating really insane girls, and you've gone through a lot of them... and that's really not appealing. Nobody wants to become just another one of Cyrus' psycho ex-girlfriends.
Think about this: has every girl you've ever asked out really been that special to you? Or is it just that you want to be with someone and they just happen to fit the bill?
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