Introspection
Today, I've actually been able to sit back and think about things. It's been nice, to say the least. I've been doing nothing other than watching Queer as Folk and kind of avoiding conversation with people. It's not that I want to shy away, it's just that I've thought about things too much for me to actually let loose and get into anything deep when
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A few things might be the cause of this: nerves, though you think it might not be that, it could very well be on a subconscious level.
Also, the stress of having to perform because you might think it's expected of you, can have the opposite effect and shut you down entirely.
Last but not least, if you have a bit too much playtime with yourself it might have a negative effect on paytime with others. And I say this without wanting to sound too much like a mother :p
Honestly, in this regard, any type of relationship, be it straight, gay or bi, suffers the same problems.
And eventually you get over it.
I used to have a boyfriend who was unable to climax when he was with me. It took me a while to realise that it wasn't because of me, and it took us both another while to fix it. It did eventually get fixed, though we did split up some time after.
Not because of that, mind you, I'm not that shallow :p
Don't worry too much about it. It'll be fine :D
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