alot going on
I never did write anything about the accident on June 1st. So, I'll start with there. Bobby's cousin Bubby was in a horrible car accident right in front of our house. We live out in the sticks and none of our intersections have stop signs. Bubby's girlfriend Brianna was driving and after leaving his dad's house (our neighbor) she yeilded at the intersection and proceded through it. They got about 3/4 of the way through the intersection and a truck traveling imo at least 50 - 60 mph tboned them. He did not even attempt to stop. Their car stopped him. There is a hill right before the intersection and at the rate of speed he was going he had less than 1 second to react to their car being there. We were in the house when it happened and heard what sounded like a huge explosion. My husband, his dad and Bubby's dad Tommy ran to the car. They were there before the dust and smoke had even settled. Bubby and Brianna were in the front seat and their friends Danielle and Tony were in the back seat. The boys were in the side that got hit. After dialing 911, I left to go get Bubby's mom. The kids were all pinned in the car and at that point we didn't know if he was going to make it. Bobby held Danielle halfway out of the car for over 30 minutes until the parimedics came. Brianna and Bubby were airlifted from the field and the other two were taken by ambulence to Pinckneyville hospital and then airlifted to St. Louis. Tony died in St. Louis due to massive internal injuries. :( Bobby's cousin is still recovering. He was in St. Louis for over a week then transfered to Belleville for rehab. He's home how but he's still far from being back to normal. He had 6 broken ribs a collapsed lung lacerated liver and kidney, broken pelvis and broken bones in his spine. He also had a deep cut on his thigh where the door of the car went into him. It's been a hard month. Dealing with that has taken a toll on all of us. Bobby has really had a difficult time dealing with it. The county is still refusing to put up stop signs. It ticks me off to no end. We will not stop fighting until there are signs put up. That boy should not have died because the county won't put signs up.
Then surprise surprise we're having another baby. Due date Feb. 16th, 2010. I have my first doc appt. July 15th. Wish me luck. I hate going to the doc.
Things with my parents were going back to normal. We actually started going back over there and everything. I thought things were going really good. Then the AC incident. Tony and Mel gave us an AC last year when ours went out. IT was in the basement of their old house. So Bobby went down there and put it in our old house. Then it got moved to our new house because our central air wasn't hooked up. The day that our central got hooked up my mom was calling saying that their ac wasn't working and they wanted the AC back. We didn't even get it from them ! But, we said alright. Bobby took it out of the window and then Tommy called and asked for help putting in his AC because Bobby's cousin Bubby couldn't breathe with it being so hot in the house. So, he went over there to help him out. At 10:30 at night my dad calls bitching because he wanted me to bring the AC over right that minute. I told him there's no way I can. I;ve got the kids asleep and Bobby is still gone and there's no way that I can carry it out. Then he's like "Bring it over now!" and I replied back "Don't talk to me like that. I'm not a dog. YOu can't just command me around" He hung up on me. Two days later I went over there to wish him happy father's day and we got into a big arguement. I don't know who he thinks he is. He can't just talk to me the way that he does. So we're not talking again. I'm done with it all.
Manda's situation also makes me sad. Her and her husband are getting a divorce. She really deserves better. He treats her like dirt. She deserves to be happy. I'm sure I'll post more on the subject later.
Anyway, that's about it for now.