I’d like to challenge prevailing ideas of “sexual maturity” from a pro-PWD (and particular, people with invisible mental illness) perspective. This is clearly an idea found within mainstream feminism, but I don’t think it’s really all that distinguishable from mainstream thought in general, so, you know, apply as necessary. Overall, it is
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Now in one's 20s or 30s, I'm sure that perception changes. I was having sex by then so it wasn't an issue I dealt with as an adult. I do think there is a perception that women who are "still virgins(!)" in early to middle adulthood are somehow either immature or not doable for whatever reason. I guess, for me, it just wasn't an issue during the teenage years. I read a stay recently that described what percentage of men and women had had sex by the end of the first year of university. The numbers were lower than most would expect. I think the perception of everyone else having sex is skewed.
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I'm more concerned with the fact that this is the language used by people who are advocating and creating sex-ed websites and curricula. It's not so much coming from other kids that I'm worried about (well, maybe it is now, but not as I remember). I don't want something which I worry is exclusionist and possibly harmful playing such a big role in the pro-sex discourse. If that makes sense.
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