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Well, here i am, day 2 on this journal, i wonder how long this will last... In any case, i sort of got annoyed and mad today... i have two things to type about today, and i hope everyone understands what i am typing about.
First off is the "sorry" deal. In this day and age everyone uses that word. Great, good for them. Where the hell did the sincerity go? Poeple don't seem to care any longer if the person is sincere about it when they say sorry, or if they really mean it. It just makes me so mad. Earlier today someone i'm losing confidence in as a freind gave me one fo those sorrys. You could tell she didn't mean it, she just said it to get me to forgive her, not becuase she ment it. There simply wasn't any sincerity in it at all, it was just a "sorry," just the word, and not the feeling. It annoys me. I know that she would do the same thing again, and again, and say aorry again and again in those instances. The fact is she doesn't care, she doesn't care wether i was mad or not, she just wanted me to forgive her, and not be mad at her. notice i said mad at HER. If i was mad at anyone else it wouldn't affect her at all, but simply becuase i was mad at her she said sorry, all she wanted to be is forgiven. I know she isn't going to change and stop doing those things she says sorry for, which makes her insincere, so what reason is there for her to say sorry? The only reason she says it is for herself. She wants to think that i am goign to forgive her as long as she says a measily word. I am sick of giving pardons to those types of people, then can just get a life, becuase i'm not going to deal with someoen who, in essence, is lieing to me, they aren't sorry, they will do it again, and i am annoyed by the whole thing.
The next part of this journal entry is about poeple who tell others to not do something, or suggest that they should do something, but s/he does not follow through him/herself. I find it very annoying that someone tells me this cliche statement that everyone shoudl follow, and then see them the next day doing just the opposite of what they told me to do. It is not only being a hypocrite, it make them look like a very untrust worthy person. How can you trust soemoen that says one thing, and does another? i don't think you can, in fact i think it is quite impossible. of course there are exceptions and what not, i have to be technical about all of this, so i won't say it is simply impossible, becuase it isn't... i don't have much to say about this, i sort of ran out of steam typing the last thinggy... i don't know exactly what you would call it... but i guess this is it for today.
-Cole
First off is the "sorry" deal. In this day and age everyone uses that word. Great, good for them. Where the hell did the sincerity go? Poeple don't seem to care any longer if the person is sincere about it when they say sorry, or if they really mean it. It just makes me so mad. Earlier today someone i'm losing confidence in as a freind gave me one fo those sorrys. You could tell she didn't mean it, she just said it to get me to forgive her, not becuase she ment it. There simply wasn't any sincerity in it at all, it was just a "sorry," just the word, and not the feeling. It annoys me. I know that she would do the same thing again, and again, and say aorry again and again in those instances. The fact is she doesn't care, she doesn't care wether i was mad or not, she just wanted me to forgive her, and not be mad at her. notice i said mad at HER. If i was mad at anyone else it wouldn't affect her at all, but simply becuase i was mad at her she said sorry, all she wanted to be is forgiven. I know she isn't going to change and stop doing those things she says sorry for, which makes her insincere, so what reason is there for her to say sorry? The only reason she says it is for herself. She wants to think that i am goign to forgive her as long as she says a measily word. I am sick of giving pardons to those types of people, then can just get a life, becuase i'm not going to deal with someoen who, in essence, is lieing to me, they aren't sorry, they will do it again, and i am annoyed by the whole thing.
The next part of this journal entry is about poeple who tell others to not do something, or suggest that they should do something, but s/he does not follow through him/herself. I find it very annoying that someone tells me this cliche statement that everyone shoudl follow, and then see them the next day doing just the opposite of what they told me to do. It is not only being a hypocrite, it make them look like a very untrust worthy person. How can you trust soemoen that says one thing, and does another? i don't think you can, in fact i think it is quite impossible. of course there are exceptions and what not, i have to be technical about all of this, so i won't say it is simply impossible, becuase it isn't... i don't have much to say about this, i sort of ran out of steam typing the last thinggy... i don't know exactly what you would call it... but i guess this is it for today.
-Cole