Holy crap, for once, two days off in a row! Been one hell of a weekend, even though I had to work. Now that I have the days off, it's my own weekend. lol
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Hello. I am a 32 year old man, married 8 years with 2 kids. I'm happy for you, Plaid2k, that you have found someone to share your life as well as your bed. I first met my partner when I was at a mixer for a fraternity I was pledging, we had a sexual thing for a few months, then the frat house found out and showed us that we were not what they wanted. Then 9 years ago we saw each other again at a wedding and been together ever since, well this isn't about me but I had thought I should let you know a bit about me. I always feel strange just posting without an account. Like I am judging the person without letting them judge me.
Have you ever had your heart broken? How about a leg? The morning after my partner and I were found out, we were returned to the campus main hall with bruises and broken limbs abounding. I needed 17 stitches, 3 over my eye and the rest .. you can guess. Would you tell me that I needed to get a distraction, if we had met the next day? The next week? When would be a good time for me to get a distraction? I cannot find a difference, in feeling, from the frat night and a broken heart. I find it insulting to women how you mention her in here. I understand there is no love for her in your heart but there once was. Right? I mean I can see if you wanted to rant and get your feelings of anger or frustration of her out. Can you not find the respect to just let her go, though? I mean you of course you have in your heart and bed, why not in your life? You mentioned moving on, that if you had a different job it would be easier for you both to move on. Are you getting a different job? Is She?
Though your entries are like novella's, I will continue to read them and be glad for your newfound happiness. Take things slow though. I will never understand how a people can mix sex and love so quickly. Yes when my partner and I first met we did have sex, a lot, but that was all it was was sex. The second time, we waited 2 months before sleeping together (there was other stuff of course, but no penetration). Wear a condom always and keep up the blood testing. I am always glad to hear when people are smart.
Thank you for letting me post and have a good summer.
heh, more fanmail! how exciting!! Im the Infamous Amy he talks about, kinda pointless to have the psudonym, and say my real name... but meh. im kinda interested on the whole "fanmail" concept. anyway.. i do have to admit sometimes, there is the slight linch in my stomach when Roen brings up the ex, and looking around on his website seeing photos of them together, but i have gone out on a limb to trust him, and i know from the time that we share with one another, that we both know where our respective hearts lay. Me and Roen are 6 years apart to the day, so our personality traits and quirks are uncanny and we quite find ourselves thinking the same things at the same time a lot. i admit, i bring up times with my Ex, even though i am over him, i cannot forget everything about it and therefore learn from my mistakes in previous relationships, thus most of the reason His ex is mentioned in here. i think me and Roen have a good grasp on this. Its strange how fate comes back to you, even after a wild fling. im glad you too have found happiness, and also happy to know that people (who we really havent met yet) are looking out for us, it means something. :) i have had a few hurtful relationships in the past, and this time, i didnt want to follow suit, i wanted something meaningful, and im pretty sure that i have found someone who sees eye to eye with me with many different views/thoughts/opinions/dreams. though, like i said before, thanks for looking out for us, and sparing us from verry hard learned lessons. -Amy PS: to many more years of happiness to you and yours. :)
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Have you ever had your heart broken? How about a leg? The morning after my partner and I were found out, we were returned to the campus main hall with bruises and broken limbs abounding. I needed 17 stitches, 3 over my eye and the rest .. you can guess. Would you tell me that I needed to get a distraction, if we had met the next day? The next week? When would be a good time for me to get a distraction? I cannot find a difference, in feeling, from the frat night and a broken heart. I find it insulting to women how you mention her in here. I understand there is no love for her in your heart but there once was. Right? I mean I can see if you wanted to rant and get your feelings of anger or frustration of her out. Can you not find the respect to just let her go, though? I mean you of course you have in your heart and bed, why not in your life? You mentioned moving on, that if you had a different job it would be easier for you both to move on. Are you getting a different job? Is She?
Though your entries are like novella's, I will continue to read them and be glad for your newfound happiness. Take things slow though. I will never understand how a people can mix sex and love so quickly. Yes when my partner and I first met we did have sex, a lot, but that was all it was was sex. The second time, we waited 2 months before sleeping together (there was other stuff of course, but no penetration). Wear a condom always and keep up the blood testing. I am always glad to hear when people are smart.
Thank you for letting me post and have a good summer.
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Im the Infamous Amy he talks about, kinda pointless to have the psudonym, and say my real name... but meh. im kinda interested on the whole "fanmail" concept.
anyway..
i do have to admit sometimes, there is the slight linch in my stomach when Roen brings up the ex, and looking around on his website seeing photos of them together, but i have gone out on a limb to trust him, and i know from the time that we share with one another, that we both know where our respective hearts lay.
Me and Roen are 6 years apart to the day, so our personality traits and quirks are uncanny and we quite find ourselves thinking the same things at the same time a lot. i admit, i bring up times with my Ex, even though i am over him, i cannot forget everything about it and therefore learn from my mistakes in previous relationships, thus most of the reason His ex is mentioned in here. i think me and Roen have a good grasp on this.
Its strange how fate comes back to you, even after a wild fling. im glad you too have found happiness, and also happy to know that people (who we really havent met yet) are looking out for us, it means something. :) i have had a few hurtful relationships in the past, and this time, i didnt want to follow suit, i wanted something meaningful, and im pretty sure that i have found someone who sees eye to eye with me with many different views/thoughts/opinions/dreams.
though, like i said before, thanks for looking out for us, and sparing us from verry hard learned lessons. -Amy
PS: to many more years of happiness to you and yours. :)
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