MUM IS HOME - AND OTHER NEWS…

Aug 15, 2014 18:51

Mum got home Wednesday evening, SIS picked her up. I´ve had been grocery shopping so she would not starve.
Thursday she wanted the dog’s home so I delivered them after their morning walk and breakfast.
Then I went shopping for the few things Mum needed.

Mums upstairs neighbour, Helle - she is an artist, and have a puddle - arranged dogs walking with Mum. So Mum can call on her whenever she needs help.

Another doggie owner we know is there if Mum needs something like medication picked up in the weekends - or Mum needs help with the dogs…..
Today Mum and I went grocery shopping….After Mum had been walking the dogs and doing a few chores around her flat. And resting for two hours…
It took a long time with the resting places, but Mum was glad she did it….And her next door neighbour showed up and he carried her groceries up for her, so I didn´t have to.

I’d probably go shopping myself tomorrow, but that is fine.

Mum wants to say thank you to all of you, for the kind words, cards, prayers and thoughts.
That means the world to her, that there are someone that cares for her.
Hugs and Bless You All.

A lot have been going on with Crazy!Aunt, BRO and SIS since Mum got in the hospital.

At first these ground rules have been forever and stays!!;
I am Mums contact person (as she is mine) in all hospital papers and records; the hospital calls ME, if something happens and I’ll call around with whatever there is to tell...

On Thursday, the day after Mums operations, Crazy!Aunt and her hubby arrived four hours before they were expected,,, but they stayed for around one hour and she behaved and everything was fine.
I stayed until later and got home.
Then Friday morning Mum called in shock;
Crazy!Aunt had called the information, telling them to put her up as Mums contact person and deleting me. When they refused, she had been screaming and making a big scene…Mum was so embarrassed.
We agreed on NOT answering her calls for a few days, as Mum couldn’t handle her.

BRO has been fine, helping out with the things Mum will need.

SIS has been kind to me, letting me be around Rebecca and Benedicte…. That is a good sign.
I will never forgive her for what she said and did to me and Mum and Dad when I had cancer…but for the family peace, I’ll follow her rules…
So it seems that BRO and SIL will be kind and not make problems.
Mum does not need that….

Thank you to all of you for being here for Mum and me… Love and Hugs you all.

mum, cancer, balder, i have the best friends in the world, family, nanna, personal, Thank you♥, neighbours, nieces, friends, thea, sarah

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