Aug 14, 2010 21:28
I rarely post anything controversal because I HATE fights. Because I know we all can't think in the same direction. It's like that. Human gender is like this. But I'm kind of dissapointed and angry at the same time.
It was Aurora's decision to leave the page. I respect it. I'm NOT asking everybody to respect it. BUT I'd ask people to respect her. I don't say that because it's HER. I would defend ANY of you, kittens, if it was the case. It's not a secret I'm friend with Aurora. As I'm friend with ALL OF YOU.
So when I see some people bashing her, yeah that hurts me. What hurts me the most is to see that behind the glittery side of Weirlandia where we prone acceptance and respect, there are still breaches where the bad can slip in. So please - PLEASE - I beg and I know it... Don't let that happen again. We all have our opinions, and I KNOW she wasn't tender in her comment. But she was deeply hurt. Not her words, MINE.
You have to understand it's very difficult to capture emotions from behind a screen so everything we say is a 1000 time more powerfull sometimes than we really mean to. Words can hurt more than guns. I don't ask you to agree with her, nor to like her but only respect her.
And she's leaving now, it's done, we can't change it. So stop bashing her, you are wasting your time. As for her discussion about God and stuffs, I didn't read it all but I know what she means. She means that the page is supposed to show our love for Johnny and what he does. And we've met wonderful people there, you, kittens. So whatever God we are believing in or we don't believe in, God's message was : Love each other as I loved you.
Do you think, when bashing ANYONE, you show LOVE and ACCEPTANCE? I'm not saying you have to agree with everything people say but discuss it with respect and don't stabb in the back afterwards. That, I think, was the message of Aurora : Some people say "Love, don't fight" but they are critisizing anyway.
That is sad. Really. So I hope the bashing of some people was the result product by the anger of the moment and not anything else. Now, when one day (because no one is eternal), I'll be gone too... Will you critisize and bash me too?