well i'm this massive guru ozzing with enlightenment. i'll try not to be and just tell you what i would do in your situation. before heading to greece, i would write down what i'd say to rouli (in person). he could respond about a 100 different ways. pick a few ways you think he'll respond (confiding, ignorant, uncaring, like it doesn't involve him) and think of your first response to each of his....then think rationally and write down the rational response. try to be rational to his face...after all, you want him to listen and hear you rather then run away and leave you hanging.
i think you have to have the upperhand on your emotions or else you could end up driving away the people you need with you the most. even if all that those people can do is hug you and say "everything will be alright" try to accept it like you believe it rather then fight and yell, those people will feel like their words made a difference and they can move on with their lives and stay out of your business like you want them to.
anyways, in greece you might change your mind, if i get a random drunk/crying/sobbing collect call from greece and you have nothing to say, you just wanted somebody to talk to in a time of need. I WILL STILL PICK UP THE CHARGES!!! i love you!
before heading to greece, i would write down what i'd say to rouli (in person).
he could respond about a 100 different ways. pick a few ways you think he'll respond (confiding, ignorant, uncaring, like it doesn't involve him) and think of your first response to each of his....then think rationally and write down the rational response. try to be rational to his face...after all, you want him to listen and hear you rather then run away and leave you hanging.
i think you have to have the upperhand on your emotions or else you could end up driving away the people you need with you the most. even if all that those people can do is hug you and say "everything will be alright" try to accept it like you believe it rather then fight and yell, those people will feel like their words made a difference and they can move on with their lives and stay out of your business like you want them to.
anyways, in greece you might change your mind, if i get a random drunk/crying/sobbing collect call from greece and you have nothing to say, you just wanted somebody to talk to in a time of need. I WILL STILL PICK UP THE CHARGES!!!
i love you!
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