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thinking about that time I got pissed my father opened a letter I got during the last month I was living with them in California, at age 33, that had a personal note and a check from my lover, with the excuse "it's MY HOUSE" and everyone in the family thought I was the asshole for drawing a fucking boundary.
deep breath; I have created a life in which I feel loved and safe in a brutal world and i'm so thankful