Bagel. Again.

[pico_the_great]

Even as tonight I was gathering information on his still thinking about me, even as tonight I was recieving advice about how to deal with him, even as I was deciding precisely what to say to him to finish this --- I got a text from him that says "i love you

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Teljesen Igaz

[anonymous]

Veled erzek nagyon. De ovatosan szakits. Az unnepek talan nem jo napok erre, csak tapintatosan, de meg kell csinalni. Amit erzel az normalis es emberi. Van/lesz mas aki neked valo, csak ki kell varni. S idovel neki is lesz.

Re: Teljesen Igaz

[pico_the_great]

Koszonom. Hivlak majd errol, de alul mondtam mit fogok csinalni: oldalra hozom es csak megmondom mit gondolok, s akkor nem beszelek hozza a honap alat. :(

De koszonom.

[historicula]

Oh, yuck. I'm available for talking in the evenings if you want.

[pico_the_great]

Thank you.

tangentially: I'll be done with my last exam tomorrow. Unfortunately, btw, the Swedish thing is strictly invitation-only, sorry. But we'll get lots of chances to hang out together over break, right? RIGHT.

[knittingdemon]

In music the "come back it will work this time I promise" is romantic
In real life (most of the time)at best it's naive, at worst it's stalkerish
very very rarely will a failed relationship work the second go round

the best/nicest you can do is exactly what you are describing "I don't feel the same way, your behavior isn't helping, and I'm going to not see you for awhile so I don't have to worry about leading you on/constantly fighting you off"
than do it, don't see (and be polite but distant if you do), don't talk/text/etc
it might hurt him a lot at first, but it should keep him from getting his hopes up
good luck

[pico_the_great]

Yeah. I've begun to realize that now.

I've decided that when he gets to campus I'm going to bring him to a neutral place and sit him down and tell it to him straight. (That's the hard part, because I've been trying all this time not to hurt him by telling him whatI think; now I'm going to have to tell him exactly what I think.) After that I'm going to be putting his view of my facebook on limited and not talking to him over the month of vacation.

I don't like it at all, but at this point I think it's all I can do.

Thank you. I'll need it.

Bolcs dolog

[knittingdemon]

Csak legy egyenes, de ne bantsad. Az igazsag eleg banto, mert igazibol nem akarod a kapcsolatot, nehez hallani, de meg kell mondani. Nem hallgatott rad idaig. Egyutterzek. Hivj, ha akarsz. Jim jon at este 8 tajban, bajban van, meg kell fizetnie - nem tudom mire. Remes.