Dec 26, 2005 09:15
so simply to get this off my chest and let the whole world know i am not racist.
thank you good bye
why is it that anyone who is not 'white' can say alot of things that i cannot, and which i will get into trouble for? black people can call each other 'nigger' and mexicans call each other 'spic'. yet when i make an observation from experience i am shot down in a flaming ball of glory.
i have reason to think the way i do. I am completely understanding that i cannot make generalities and have it be ture all the time.
however, hisapnic men are not like white men. i have dated one and been harassed by others. i was not the simple case of getting whistled at on the street.
a man 6 years older than me took a knife and threated me. gesturing that he would cut me if i did not kiss him.
the boy i dated (which was a mistake on my part) was verbally abusive and proceeded to be so physical in the relationship that many many times i was uncomfortable. i dumped the moron.
i also know of other people who have had problems of the same sort. i feel that i am justified in telling one of my good friends to be careful when it comes to this.
i do not want her to experience what i have, and it would be nice if someone finally learned from someone elses mistakes. before getting into the situtaion.
i made a racist remark in jest. asking if the new guy that she liked was hispanic. (the answer was no)
however i feel that i was attacked for trying to look after my friends' well being. i am sorry if it was offensive to her.
i will never be sorry that i care.
it is upsetting when you learn that a person who you see as yoru closest friend does not reciprocate your feelings.
that you can never be more than 2nd or 3rd best.
we have our disagreements, many in fact. but she is still my best friend.
even if i am not hers.
i ♥ you dear.
merry christmas.