be careful what you wish for
it might come true ;) and I am glad but leery too. He has apparently been thinking about this - I forget about that planning organizer mind of his. I tend to freeze initially and then start feeling a way out after, he must just immediately start seeing options, testing, trashing, keeping. The other thing I forget about him is his absolute lack of cowardice. He will step up and say what needs saying, calmly, logically. Of course it was the look of strength and peace that had drawn me to him initially, it was all part of the Six package, height, strength, calm in heart and mind. I'm not used to that in un homme directed at me. It has been, is and will be disconcerting at times but so very worth it =)