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It's hard to understand these kind of people, you did nothing wrong but she is acting like this? Shows she is being selfish and doesn't care, but who knows....maybe that boyfriend of hers said something about how you reacted to the bday stuff? Who knows, maybe I'm just paranoid.
Take the advice, I KNOW it's hard, but she doesn't deserve such a good friend as you. And I'm sure she did care for you at one time, and she probably thinks she's doing nothing wrong at all as well. She's a selfish person and they usually can't see outside their bubble.
It's understandable to think and want it to be her, friendships...are like romantic relationships. There is a bond and love there, so it's going to take some time. Especially since she refuses to give you solace as to why she's being this way. But you ARE strong, you have a life and you have other people who care for you (your family, me and Rusky, and tons of others). And...LET yourself think this, get it out of your system, to get over things you can't hold back your feelings.
Also writing an angry letter to her will help immensely, something like what you already did.
Feelings are like that, but so those missing feelings will leave and then anger will lave. *hugs* just don't force your feelings back or hide them.
But...thinking that is letting people like her win over you. Don't, not everyone is like her and not everyone will do this. But of course there are the assholes that do, but there are more people who want to be close to you.
The best thing to do as you move on is realize that. And it be the BIGGEST FUCK YOU to her ever, that you can move past her and have better friendships with others, while she's stuck with her shallow friends and relationship that she obviously wants. You're too good for her, and don't let someone like that close you off.
It's hard to understand these kind of people, you did nothing wrong but she is acting like this? Shows she is being selfish and doesn't care, but who knows....maybe that boyfriend of hers said something about how you reacted to the bday stuff? Who knows, maybe I'm just paranoid.
Take the advice, I KNOW it's hard, but she doesn't deserve such a good friend as you. And I'm sure she did care for you at one time, and she probably thinks she's doing nothing wrong at all as well. She's a selfish person and they usually can't see outside their bubble.
It's understandable to think and want it to be her, friendships...are like romantic relationships. There is a bond and love there, so it's going to take some time. Especially since she refuses to give you solace as to why she's being this way. But you ARE strong, you have a life and you have other people who care for you (your family, me and Rusky, and tons of others). And...LET yourself think this, get it out of your system, to get over things you can't hold back your feelings.
Also writing an angry letter to her will help immensely, something like what you already did.
Feelings are like that, but so those missing feelings will leave and then anger will lave. *hugs* just don't force your feelings back or hide them.
But...thinking that is letting people like her win over you. Don't, not everyone is like her and not everyone will do this. But of course there are the assholes that do, but there are more people who want to be close to you.
The best thing to do as you move on is realize that. And it be the BIGGEST FUCK YOU to her ever, that you can move past her and have better friendships with others, while she's stuck with her shallow friends and relationship that she obviously wants. You're too good for her, and don't let someone like that close you off.
*hugs*
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