Playing Peeping Tom
anonymous
August 19 2004, 17:22:36 UTC
There is little more in the world that is more intriguing that getting to hear the inner most, private thoughts of those that you don't really know all that well. I'll keep this entry in mind if we meet for lunch or coffee, Phil. Jennifer Waxman
Re: Playing Peeping TomphildowAugust 20 2004, 00:21:07 UTC
Hmmm... I'm going to get into trouble here!
This one was a tough one to write. If this were an anonymous blog, no problem, but people I know read this thing. Oh well. I figure I'm talking about stuff that most people already know about in general. Nothing new here. The only thing new is that it's coming from me. Unless of course whimsie was right and it is just me! Nooooooooo!!
Re: Playing Peeping TomphildowAugust 22 2004, 16:05:44 UTC
My problem is that I want a balance between the affection and the sex. Well, that's not the whole of it. More that I really want the sex but simultaneously don't want sex without the affection. I'd like a person I can be close to, a girlfriend I guess, not a one-night stand or fuck buddy. But then, I really, really need some sex--so do I go for the one-night stand/buddy? So far not yet, but if I were actually put in a situation where I had to make the choice, I'm not sure what I would do.
Relationships are more than sex, and I want want a relationship. But I want sex too. Do I want sex bad enough to forgo the relationship? Maybe, but I know I would eventually feel empty about it. Sex can satisfy a need, but it doesn't help much with the longing for another person.
Re: Playing Peeping TomwhimsieAugust 22 2004, 16:18:45 UTC
Isn't that what EVERYONE wants? Okay, most people... not all. But what you are feeling is totally normal.
I yearn for a relationship but I tend to fall for boys who live bazillions of miles away. It's a bad habit. :\
Anyway, the whole sex thing is tricky. While you strongly desire sex you might come to regret involving yourself in a, well, situation. Personally, I think sex is supposed to be about sharing yourself with someone you truly love... but I'm just a girl after all.
Don't worry too much about it, I know I know... easier said than done. But if you don't harp on your situation, good things just may come your way. :)
Jennifer Waxman
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This one was a tough one to write. If this were an anonymous blog, no problem, but people I know read this thing. Oh well. I figure I'm talking about stuff that most people already know about in general. Nothing new here. The only thing new is that it's coming from me. Unless of course whimsie was right and it is just me! Nooooooooo!!
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don't worry, we all have these thoughts unless of course we is a monk. :P
although, i find that i more long for cuddles and hand holding... i've always been the affectionate type though, not that you aren't!
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Relationships are more than sex, and I want want a relationship. But I want sex too. Do I want sex bad enough to forgo the relationship? Maybe, but I know I would eventually feel empty about it. Sex can satisfy a need, but it doesn't help much with the longing for another person.
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I yearn for a relationship but I tend to fall for boys who live bazillions of miles away. It's a bad habit. :\
Anyway, the whole sex thing is tricky. While you strongly desire sex you might come to regret involving yourself in a, well, situation. Personally, I think sex is supposed to be about sharing yourself with someone you truly love... but I'm just a girl after all.
Don't worry too much about it, I know I know... easier said than done. But if you don't harp on your situation, good things just may come your way. :)
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