When does my responsiblity stop and his start?

[phanalance]

You know I have to wonder about it. Really. The Ex and his wife took Bunny out for dinner on Wednesday, and when they came back I was told I had to have a talk with my daughter. I was preplexed as to why until he said Bunny had been disrespectful to his wife. All issues aside, I talked to Bunny. I asked and inquired but never really raised my voice

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[artana]

Your responsibility is not to discipline her about stuff that happens when she's with her dad. He has to deal with it. He is almost trying to force you to break your divorce agreement and inquire about things that are against the law for you to inquire about.

[phanalance]

Yup, I know. I'm not going into that world, he can try to get me in there but I'm not. I'm not going to take that kind of responsibility, and when he thinks he can yank control back because he wants to "act being a man". Pretty much he wants me to do this and then throw it in my face later. So why do that? Why try to do something that I know that will burn me in the end. I'm not, I can't. I can't mentally and emotionally doing it. He's going to have to grow some balls and talk to his wife or lose his daughter. It's his choice and in the end his responsiblitiy