When does my responsiblity stop and his start?
You know I have to wonder about it. Really. The Ex and his wife took Bunny out for dinner on Wednesday, and when they came back I was told I had to have a talk with my daughter. I was preplexed as to why until he said Bunny had been disrespectful to his wife. All issues aside, I talked to Bunny. I asked and inquired but never really raised my voice. I sent an email as to the reasons why Bunny was like that and explaining that she really is afraid of Auggie. Well I got an email back and to be honest, I didn't really read it. I'm sure it was filled with excuses as he can't handle his child and can't handle the situation between his wife and his daughter.
It came back saying pretty much you deal with it. Well I'm not one to deal with things that are not my problem. I sent a polite responce back to the point saying "get counciling". I talked with my grandmother about it today, the one that lives with us. She thinks I should take responsiblity and handle the situation. If I do that, then I'm doing exactly what my Ex wants me to do. Handling his shit. I told I wasn't and she got upset with me. So I guess I have to pose this question, when do my responsibilities stop and his begin?
It came back saying pretty much you deal with it. Well I'm not one to deal with things that are not my problem. I sent a polite responce back to the point saying "get counciling". I talked with my grandmother about it today, the one that lives with us. She thinks I should take responsiblity and handle the situation. If I do that, then I'm doing exactly what my Ex wants me to do. Handling his shit. I told I wasn't and she got upset with me. So I guess I have to pose this question, when do my responsibilities stop and his begin?