So its not friday night yet but it will be, and i will be here at home with nothing to do. Yes here, with nothing to do.....sigh.....oh well, one day, one day
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Well i see that it is not so easy to get over a guy. Remember when me and berto broke up after a 2 year relationship and your advise was just "GET OVER IT!" See how its not so easy...i felt 10 times worse than you do now. I went to you for advise, and thats all u could say. You dont know how much that shit hurt. I went to you cause i felt more comfortable with you and i thought you being more mature would understand. I saw that i was wrong. I didnt know who to turn to anymore...so i had to deal with it myself. This made me stronger...to the person i am now. I learned to handle my own shit...which people still dont understand. But this love thing i had to handle myself. Now im not the lil girl than needed people to always protect me. Dont get me wrong i still need you guys, but, with things i get into myself...im a big girl...i can get myself out. Now sweety im not gonna give you the same advise as you gave me cause believe me it didnt work...and thats some shitty ass advise. I know you probably dont want advise from me...but ima give it to you and some how i know it will kinda work cause i have experienced what youa re now. Just let him go slowly. You are doing all this at once. Why ERASE him. Makes no sence. Well i have more, but i have to leave. I'll write something later...or if you really want my advise call me. I can tell you i still cant get over him, but it will be so much easier for you ...than it will me. Seen how he was my boyfriend for 2 years...seen how we TALKED everyday....seen how we SAW eachother everyday. Seen how he was my best friend...no matter what he was there for me.....ok now i really have to go cause i gotta go to work. talk to you later....and always remember i love you. i aint bitchin or anything like that. im just stating the truth. It will be hard, but you are a strong girl. bye, con amor, liz
yes, its not easy to get over a guy. sorry liz, but i took your post pretty offensively, you "aint bitchin" but it feels that way. thank you for pretty much telling me im a shitty as friend, its good to know that. you make it seem like i told you "GET OVER IT" 2 days after berto left, which i didnt. first of all i didnt say "GET OVER IT" i let you know that you needed to move on, why cuz it was mid-march and you were still saying "my baby berto" or "mi suegra" sorry sweetie but like i said it was mid-march, mind you berto left in OCTOBER. sorry if it was not what you wanted to hear, but a few of us were done sugar coating shit for you, it was something you needed to hear. i was there for, but i guess you needed more. i couldnt give that to you. also just cuz, i dont see or talk to oh boy everyday, or just because i wasnt in a two year relationship doesnt make what im feeling minimal, cuz thats what you are pretty much saying. i still dont know how you managed to turn my post into how i was a crappy ass friend, and how you are a better person now. i appreciate the help and advice. but it didnt feel like advice it felt like a reply stating how much i suck at giving advice and worse yet how much i suck as a friend. thanks liz. its good to know what you think. and your tact was just great.
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