Flirting Tip of the Yet-To-Be-Determined-Time-Interval
“Flirting on the Hunt” is the thing that gives flirting a bad reputation and most of the time it just comes across as creepy.
Lose the Creepy: You must turn off that desire for anything other than the flirting. People can tell when you have an agenda. And women can tell within microseconds from across a room if you are on the hunt.
People don’t like car salesmen because they always have an agenda and they won’t like you for the same reason.
Stress: Since you are just enjoying the conversation there is no pressure to succeed. There is no goal (phone number, kiss, whatever) that you have to obtain or face failure. It is just a conversation, a simple interaction.
Logistics: If you are not hunting you can give undivided attention to the person you are with. All the thought process going on in the back of your head when you are interacting with someone you desire clutter everything up and makes it all complicated.
“Be free of desire” It is a simple concept but it can be hard to do. It is also very rewarding. If you can lose desire, your success in flirting will skyrocket.
We can measure success in flirting with these two metrics.
1) Was the flirtation successful? -- Did both of us leave the interaction feeling good?
2) How successful was the flirtation? -- How much was the interaction escalated?
Lose the Creepy: You must turn off that desire for anything other than the flirting. People can tell when you have an agenda. And women can tell within microseconds from across a room if you are on the hunt.
People don’t like car salesmen because they always have an agenda and they won’t like you for the same reason.
Stress: Since you are just enjoying the conversation there is no pressure to succeed. There is no goal (phone number, kiss, whatever) that you have to obtain or face failure. It is just a conversation, a simple interaction.
Logistics: If you are not hunting you can give undivided attention to the person you are with. All the thought process going on in the back of your head when you are interacting with someone you desire clutter everything up and makes it all complicated.
“Be free of desire” It is a simple concept but it can be hard to do. It is also very rewarding. If you can lose desire, your success in flirting will skyrocket.
We can measure success in flirting with these two metrics.
1) Was the flirtation successful? -- Did both of us leave the interaction feeling good?
2) How successful was the flirtation? -- How much was the interaction escalated?