Mar 11, 2010 11:48
Practice Practice Practice
Flirting is a skill. Like every other skill, anybody who is great at a skill continually practice it. Some people might just be naturally good at a skill but to be really great they practice.
Besides flirting is fun. You enjoy it. The people you flirt with enjoy it. So do it. Do it ever where and do it all the time.
A lot of time when people first start to flirt they have to “turn it on”, get in the mood, or put themselves in a certain mindset.
That is okay. Do what you need to do to flirt.
Flirt with everyone and anyone. Remember “Flirting is the art of creating and escalating connections. “ Build a connection with the guy behind you in line. Learn something about your waitress. Make a stranger laugh.
Being in a mental place where you can flirt is a good mindset to be in. Eventually, being “in the mood” to flirt will not be something to you have work to turn on, if anything you might have to work to turn it down or off.
So, to improve your flirting skills Practice, Practice, Practice.
flirting