What a Coincidence
Get this. I started therapy a few weeks back for the sake of trying to rid the problems arising from past memories that have been pent up inside of me since I was 16yrs. old. Then of all people to find my profile on Myspace, the day after I started therapy was the person that was the sole reason behind these memories.
He was trying to make an attempt to apologize and make amends for being such an ass in high school. And though it actually was very therapeutic at first to finally be able to tell him what he has done to me over these past 14+ years mentally, things got out of hand after a while as he started denying what he first had begun apologizing for as he changed the story. It ended with the fact that he and I will never end up seeing eye to eye with what occurred and I finally had to draw the line and block him from contacting me after two weeks of messaging. Getting the final say in the matter did in fact feel good.
I had shared all the messages with my therapist and she was overly stunned with the timing of contact that occurred. She had never once heard of this happening to any one of her clients. It definitely gave us a breaking point at where to start and opened the conversation up right away with me and her about what has been bothering me over these last 14+ years of my life. Truthfully I think it has been helping as my seizures have decreased some.
After gathering information from her in regards to the matter of how stress is a related factor to my condition and sending it to my accountant; we may have enough proof that I will be able to get an on-demand decision in court rather than having to wait for a hearing date, which is expected to take over a year.
Fingers Crossed.
He was trying to make an attempt to apologize and make amends for being such an ass in high school. And though it actually was very therapeutic at first to finally be able to tell him what he has done to me over these past 14+ years mentally, things got out of hand after a while as he started denying what he first had begun apologizing for as he changed the story. It ended with the fact that he and I will never end up seeing eye to eye with what occurred and I finally had to draw the line and block him from contacting me after two weeks of messaging. Getting the final say in the matter did in fact feel good.
I had shared all the messages with my therapist and she was overly stunned with the timing of contact that occurred. She had never once heard of this happening to any one of her clients. It definitely gave us a breaking point at where to start and opened the conversation up right away with me and her about what has been bothering me over these last 14+ years of my life. Truthfully I think it has been helping as my seizures have decreased some.
After gathering information from her in regards to the matter of how stress is a related factor to my condition and sending it to my accountant; we may have enough proof that I will be able to get an on-demand decision in court rather than having to wait for a hearing date, which is expected to take over a year.
Fingers Crossed.