We are definitely not watching the same show
For the record this He`s [Sam] always needed to be the centre of Dean`s life, as we saw in the 8th season finale. And like most things, there`s positives and negatives to the fact that he always has been. I expect both aspects to get their due in the coming fall out. Is not a description of Sam in Supernatural. It is 100% diametrically opposed to what Sam is. He walked away from Dean and his family. He made a life for himself after he thought Dean had died. He encouraged Dean to find a family when he thought he was going to die and was more than willing to have Dean go back to it both while soulless and after he got his soul back. My mind is boggled.