wedding wonderfulness?

[peaceradicalove]

Ok, I am mostly done seething about this and feel as though I am now able to update everyone on

So I flew my sorry butt out to wisconsin last weekend for W.'s sister's wedding. I was so super excited and had this amazingly hot outfit for the wedding and was definitely going into it thinking that we were going to patch things up. I had just about

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[terrypurple73]

Remember that time like two years ago when William was leaving for the summer and he was AN ASSHOLE and full of POOP IN HIS PANTS and we thought he was wanting to end things and it was shitty? (wow there are a lot of references to behinds in that sentence.)
Not that being reminded of that helps probably, but it's what I thought of when I read about how crappy last weekend was for you. I sort of thought that William had grown out of that thing he does when he-doesn't-know-how-to-deal-with-tough-transitions-and-so-he-pulls-away-and-acts-like-a-jerk-as-if-he-is-GLAD-to-see-you-miserable-and-as-it-that-helps-ANYTHING.
The thing is that you are an amazingly wonderful nice person who has more care for others in her left earlobe than others do in their whole beings. And we people who care a lot about others and our relationships handle things like PEOPLE BEING ASSHOLES in a different way than people who work on their relationships in different ways. This of course doesn't excuse ANY STUPID AND MEAN BEHAVIOR that certain pseudo-partners do. Maybe really my point is that you deserve the best things in all your relationships, Miss Cait. And if certain folks can't give you the best things that you deserve, then maybe it is time to wean yourself away. Lord knows I probably wouldn't be good at it, but you have to go with what feels best. If it feels unhealthy to keep up a relationship with him (in whatever form that entails), then you need to back away.
This all said from someone who loves both of you more than I can express.
(Also said from someone who is going to the CW gathering in Des Moines in October and hopes to see you there?)
love you madly,
~T-Dawg

[peaceradicalove]

hey y'all, thanks for the long-distane lovin'. it helps a lot. yah, T., i already got october off of work for the cw gathering, it should be pretty rockin'. although I was trying to get one of the organizers to switch the planned schedule around so that all the workshops I want to attend aren't at the same time. she didn't go for it. :)
I am super stoked that yer planning on going too!
i weish that trying to love people weren't so damn complicated. it seems so simple in theory.

[terrypurple73]

i weish that trying to love people weren't so damn complicated. it seems so simple in theory.<\i>

No shit.

hugs,
~T

[jylllynn]

There is a Catholic Worker gathering in October in Des Moines!?!?! I'm so out of the loop living with a bunch of yuppies! I'll either be there or demand that you two come to Omaha to see me!

[peaceradicalove]

yah, the first national cw gathering in like 10 years is at the Catholic Youth Camp thingy near des moines this october. there is info on the DMCW website. are you definately going to Omaha? last I heard you were talking alabama.

[terrypurple73]

NATIONAL CATHOLIC WORKER REUNION/PARTY/"GATHERING"/AWESOMENESS!

Theresa=Nerd.

Check out the Des Moines Worker webpage for info- it's in October- the 20th-ish, whatever that long weekend is. Your should come play with me! (and anyone else cool that is there.)

I love you madly. And I hope your year is wrapping up beautifully, or as beautifully as it can possibly be.

hugs,
~T-Dawg