Srinivasa Kalyana Samaptaha...
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Hmm....7 years....7 years is a pretty long time huh ?
It was certainly heart warming to see one of my best pals "pluralising" his life for ever. When I sat in the chair witnessing the wedding...his entire life and my entire life whizzed past me and ended with the notty smile on his face which for years has been his trademark.
At times of joy and happiness, it is always necessary to remind urself of the days of agony . He was never the one to lend his TOTAL support, and do all goody goody friendly things to make you happy and forget it later on. If it was on him, he would make sure it ends soon.
He was / is the kind of guy who without announcing would encourage ME to get out of any trouble, and would possibly see you through it, if not he would make sure that the thought always lingers on your mind...forcing you to act soon.
I know that the world is not lost for ever....hez just got married....but there is always a thin red line on what we could do....be it visit his house on a cycle at 9.30 pm in the night and stand at his compound and dream of building a corporate empire !...
be it walk into a theatre hall without even thinking if the film would be good or bad...
be it talk about everything on life with a bhel and walk around kumarans whenever you have a headache...
he still remains the guy who has accompanied me in many of my shopping misadventures....I usually tend to buy stuff when he is around, donno how he convinces me...but its true...
As he stood there married to "dya" it made me realize (donno if he himself has or not) that we are about to / are moving into a new era of our lifetimes...I am sure dya is the right kinda girl for him.....her manerisms take this "child" to act more dignified and matured world that he has already foreseen for all these years. It gives him the direction of thought, where he can channelize his energies, most importantly succeed in whatever he ventures into....
But....that selfishness always hurts...u dont want this CHILD to mature, u still want him to scream for a bhelpuri in the middle of the night, do an MI2 on JC road and throw kumbles brother (pillion rider) out of his seat and then when he lie on the road...think that he has seen him somewhere....claim to have got the car into the gutter...oil his bat and boast to be the best batsman in the world by beating deepu, jive on heavy metal lyrics of absolutlely meaningless songs and exhume as if they were some of the best things in mankind...constantly fight with me for the supremacy of mclaren, reach rajajinagar in 7 mins from tata silk farm, spoil EVERY computer hardware ever known to mankind....(inc my comp...my mom was VERY upset with him), drop a sitter at silly point and claim that it was peer pressure, break a hand while playing class karate...and lastly LIVE THE EXTREMES.....
Good luck Senna...hope you start to eat a lot of vegetables.
P.S Dya if you are reading this....U are one LUCKY girl !...