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Buddha searched for 40 years for the meaning of life, he was a wondering bedoin, finally when he stopped searching he figured it out.
I'm only pointing this out because it brings me to my point, what I learned today. For some reason it seems like most of my friends and I keep searching for this perfect guy, we become pressed and can think of nothing but what we believe is the ideal guy. In actuallity he's just some guy, whom we found shared a few interest with us then we reshape who he is. We make ourselves believe that he is this wonderful fabulous guy, all the while ignoring all the wonderful fabulous guys that are out there. "He is the man I'm going to marry". Lieing or not we all have thought about this once in our lives. When it comes to this guy no matter who you are how smart you are how beautiful you are, when it comes to him he knows exactly how to make you feel like the ugliest dumbest girl. The point is we do it to ourselves, we are the ones who are always looking for this relationship. Rule of thumb about guys.
1. If you met him and thought he was cute, chances are so did 32409034802384 other girls. He looks good and he knows it, he knows exactly how to keep you in check.
2. It may seem like you can degrade yourself because you've got nothing left to do. Well there is always that option you have left, how about GET OVER HIM.
3. The only decent man is a dead man.
4. Always always always put your chicks before dicks.
5. Guys have one HEAD in which they think with, dont be offended.
6. If you've ever heard rumors about him 99% that those rumors are true, dont lie to yourself.
7. Always make sure that no matter what, you dont care. (something I learned from my friend Nina).
These are just a few key things that I've learned on this trip. At first my whole mission was to come and see this guy. When he wouldn't call, then I realized something. He doesn't want to see you, and thats okay it doesn't make you any less woman. Now that you know what his priorities are then you can figure your own priorities out. Yes he has other girls but thats the price you chose by falling in love with him. Now it's time for you to fall out of love. It's like cigarettes, the only way to get rid of that habit, is with a huge amount of herb and will of iron.
I'm only pointing this out because it brings me to my point, what I learned today. For some reason it seems like most of my friends and I keep searching for this perfect guy, we become pressed and can think of nothing but what we believe is the ideal guy. In actuallity he's just some guy, whom we found shared a few interest with us then we reshape who he is. We make ourselves believe that he is this wonderful fabulous guy, all the while ignoring all the wonderful fabulous guys that are out there. "He is the man I'm going to marry". Lieing or not we all have thought about this once in our lives. When it comes to this guy no matter who you are how smart you are how beautiful you are, when it comes to him he knows exactly how to make you feel like the ugliest dumbest girl. The point is we do it to ourselves, we are the ones who are always looking for this relationship. Rule of thumb about guys.
1. If you met him and thought he was cute, chances are so did 32409034802384 other girls. He looks good and he knows it, he knows exactly how to keep you in check.
2. It may seem like you can degrade yourself because you've got nothing left to do. Well there is always that option you have left, how about GET OVER HIM.
3. The only decent man is a dead man.
4. Always always always put your chicks before dicks.
5. Guys have one HEAD in which they think with, dont be offended.
6. If you've ever heard rumors about him 99% that those rumors are true, dont lie to yourself.
7. Always make sure that no matter what, you dont care. (something I learned from my friend Nina).
These are just a few key things that I've learned on this trip. At first my whole mission was to come and see this guy. When he wouldn't call, then I realized something. He doesn't want to see you, and thats okay it doesn't make you any less woman. Now that you know what his priorities are then you can figure your own priorities out. Yes he has other girls but thats the price you chose by falling in love with him. Now it's time for you to fall out of love. It's like cigarettes, the only way to get rid of that habit, is with a huge amount of herb and will of iron.