*hugs* sorry to hear, you know i've been realising for a while now and learning not to care when people call me selfish. maybe i am so what. i noticed that usually when a person calls you selfish...... its because i won't do something for THEM. its a habit people have of guilting others into doing what they want. maybe i am selfish. but if i don't look after myself who else will?
thanks dude. when a person calls you selfish...... its because i won't do something for THEM That's what i'm finding too, and it makes me feel so awful. Maybe it's exacerbated now cos i'm more vulnerable than usual, but i just think "how dare they". maybe i am selfish. but if i don't look after myself who else will? Right on. no one else is gonna do it. I'm glad i'm not the only one with this point of view.
iim your friend, and alsways here. i guess i still dont know where i stand. but its a selfish way of looking at things i spose, because maybe you're thinking the same thing, and you're too scared contact me first. and its even worse for you cos you're going through such shit. like i said i'm here for ya sarah, if ya need me, hayley too. i hope you will be ok. i hate the thought of people being alone/epty/in pain with no help.
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you know i've been realising for a while now and learning not to care when people call me selfish. maybe i am so what. i noticed that usually when a person calls you selfish...... its because i won't do something for THEM. its a habit people have of guilting others into doing what they want.
maybe i am selfish. but if i don't look after myself who else will?
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when a person calls you selfish...... its because i won't do something for THEM
That's what i'm finding too, and it makes me feel so awful. Maybe it's exacerbated now cos i'm more vulnerable than usual, but i just think "how dare they".
maybe i am selfish. but if i don't look after myself who else will?
Right on. no one else is gonna do it. I'm glad i'm not the only one with this point of view.
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