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So ry came home from the soc worker the other day. They spoke about alot and ry said he was ready and open to talk with me about outstanding issues. Well, I told him what I thought, I was angry and I think rightfully so... and he's pissed off now because I laid into him. I was just being honest. He knows I have been holding things back until we can talk about it constructively. So it feels like he is punishing me for being honest. He keeps going on about how he is trying, but I'm not seeing anything. We still have all the issues and it's not like I expect miracles, but just be able to have a conversation without him getting angry about what I say. It feels like I'm not allowed to feel, because if I do, it's not supporting him.
He's really become egocentrical and feels entitled to do what he whats with no regard to the family all under the guise of he needs it. I'm sorry but I don't see how coming home and staying in his room all the time is helping. He's avoiding it.
He takes everything as a critisism lately... even when it's not directly remotely about him. Apparently, he thinks, that I blame him because I'm lonely for girl company. I don't, but that doesn't stop the feelings on either side.
He is acting like all his defense mechanisms are up and running again on high alert. Almost like he has gone backwards and not forwards.
I think we might go out for a drink tonight and see how we can make it livable again. We need a better balance between individual time and family time and couple time.
He's really become egocentrical and feels entitled to do what he whats with no regard to the family all under the guise of he needs it. I'm sorry but I don't see how coming home and staying in his room all the time is helping. He's avoiding it.
He takes everything as a critisism lately... even when it's not directly remotely about him. Apparently, he thinks, that I blame him because I'm lonely for girl company. I don't, but that doesn't stop the feelings on either side.
He is acting like all his defense mechanisms are up and running again on high alert. Almost like he has gone backwards and not forwards.
I think we might go out for a drink tonight and see how we can make it livable again. We need a better balance between individual time and family time and couple time.