Cheating I won't be doing again. Part of what we've talked about is that I am not monogamous, never was and never will be. I've told her flat out that I won't be faithful to her. She thinks she can handle that. I don't think that she can.
Right now, since he's not seeing anyone else, she's happy. I say let him come and see me for a week once I recover and the breakdown will happen that much sooner.
I would chuckle but I'm worried about the daughter's best interests... if he alienates his wife then she will possibly try to stop him from seeing his daughter & he obviously adores her....
I don't see her doing that, since I'm not getting that she is capable of handling things alone for too long no matter what. Divorce is better for children than their staying together, since that just delays the inevitable. I have not seen that kids of divorce do worse than kids whos parents stayed married and dislike each other.
But I've brought that idea up when recently, what if I want to drive off and spend a weekend with a woman. She didn't give me an answer, but I'm pretty sure she'd never be able to handle that.
See, that she needs to handle it at all eludes me.
I was upset that I had someone who drove off to see other women for weekends at a time, yet turned around later and said he didn't want to be in an open relationship? The hypocrisy of it pissed me off royally, but I wasn't jealous about it at the time.
In my opinion, no matter what I say or do she will try to hang on for dear life. And I think that's part of what I don't like in this marriage. I want to stand on my own, then find a woman that will stand with me, not cling to me.
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But I've brought that idea up when recently, what if I want to drive off and spend a weekend with a woman. She didn't give me an answer, but I'm pretty sure she'd never be able to handle that.
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I was upset that I had someone who drove off to see other women for weekends at a time, yet turned around later and said he didn't want to be in an open relationship? The hypocrisy of it pissed me off royally, but I wasn't jealous about it at the time.
Nobody gets everything they want from everybody.
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