"ain't nothin' like the REAL thing baaaaay-beh, ain't nothin' like the reeeeeal THING..."

[orangeglitter57]

 you know, i've been called a "pilgrim" for not going along with Pornography, for hating it, and for getting my panties in a bunch about it...but guess what friends, i have a right-- a big, fat, legitimate right.  
i was once told that it gives my partner ideas to try on me (hopefully?) so that it better pleasures me (hopefully?).

|HUGE LIE|

i don't get turned on by words that've been grunted by somebody else FUCKING their partner--and i won't apologize for this--what turns me on about my partner is when he's sweet, gentle, and takes his time to get to know me intimately...more than he thinks he does.  NOT the vulgar comments.  NOT the role playing.  NOT toys.  NOT being treated like a bitch getting pumped by a man dog simply following his predatory instinct to procreate.

a talk between him and i happened tonight--a talk that needed to take place between us as Lovers.  
let's just say it made one helluva impact on tonight's Lovemaking.
*PASSION*
*ELEVATED INTIMACY*
*SELF-ESTEEM*
*CONFIDENCE*
*ELECTRICITY*
*INDIVIDUALITY*
all those things.  they happened tonight.  tonight was REAL.

.......and i loved every second of it ;]