Dec 07, 2004 15:20
OK, this entry is going to be random up the beans. But I'm sitting here at work bored. So yeah, do you ever wonder why people "hate" on things so much?
I'm not saying that I don't do it, but people who constantly hate on other things or people ALL THE TIME are probably jealous, have low self esteem, or both.
It's funny how people hate on Paris Hilton. Yes, she is a target.. and people love her because she's a rich dirty rat whore, and people hate her because she's a rich dirty rat whore. My personal opinion? I've never hated on her. I've commented before that she is too skinny, but honestly, if you got it, flaunt it! She has the money to by two Fendi purses and a silver Lexus... 5 times in a second. So do it, if ya want.
People who live at home still and have mommy and daddy pay for everything still. Ha, OK.. so I somewhat fit in this category. But people tend to think of the whole materialistic side of it. I know for me, my parents pay for insurance, car payments of the vehicles I use, house payments and utilities because I live at home, etc. But you know, it's because of their well-being nature to be motivated to stay in school. And honestly, sometimes it's a good and bad thing. Since obviously they pay for these things, they extend their control on it. Sucks, but oh well. Also, there are sometimes those people who think that living at home or still clinging on to mom and dad makes them irresponsible. Totally untrue, atleast for me. I have totally broken off some of my parents paying nurture in some arenas of my life. I have been totally capable of making decisions of my well being. I rarely ask for their opinion yet still get a judgment. I have juggled 1-3 jobs at a time, managed to take more than 15 units a semester, focus on double majoring, be incredibly involved on campus and make time for friends. In my defense, being under the care of my parents isn't as stereotypically a basket full of happily-diddly-unkling apples. It has it's good moments and definitely bad ones.
When people hate on or criticize the "American Pie" girls. Blue-eyed, blonde hair, short shorts, tanned legs, long brown hair... whatever .. who cares??? They aren't prettier, smarter, richer or anything else better than anyone else. They are normal people. I know some people who compare themselves to cover-face model-like girls, why? Why let that bring you down? or why even spend energy on just being dissatisfied?
People who are outloud are often targets of being hated. I would know, lol. People either love me or hate me. No in between, I'm serious. If I'm annoying because I'm loud, then do listen because honestly, I'm gonna be loud. Also, I'm the one who vocalizes, asks the questions, thinks of the ideas, stands up and says something so me being "loud" is often a cry to fix problems that haters often don't care about.
Hater's they flip the bird, so what? They scurred!