I was reading tonight, a favorite pastime of mine over breaks like this, since I get to do so little during the semester...and for some reason, this question popped into my head
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just as i was getting ready to hit "reply"....... i have come to one conclusion about dating the soul mate thing.... it seems so perfect but it would NEVER work. for the main reason that since the person knows what you are capable of and for the most part what you want out of life they are more than likely never going to settle for less. this includes career, social life, romantic life, EVERYTHING... how many of us actually ever live up to our potential in anything? how many of us are doing what we want to do? how many of us say everything we want to and let everyone know how they feel (where it really counts not just hurting feelings). the person who has that connection won't settle for that and push harder. alas the problem you know what it could be but it never will you should ALWAYS date someone that you don't know what it could be and you will not have any of those expectations until you get to know them and they will be based off their past history (mainly), and not what you "know" about them. So as dawson and joey so beautifully showed.... don't get together with your soul mate it will not work. find another person
i have come to one conclusion about dating the soul mate thing....
it seems so perfect but it would NEVER work.
for the main reason that since the person knows what you are capable of and for the most part what you want out of life they are more than likely never going to settle for less.
this includes career, social life, romantic life, EVERYTHING...
how many of us actually ever live up to our potential in anything?
how many of us are doing what we want to do? how many of us say everything we want to and let everyone know how they feel (where it really counts not just hurting feelings).
the person who has that connection won't settle for that and push harder.
alas the problem
you know what it could be but it never will
you should ALWAYS date someone that you don't know what it could be and you will not have any of those expectations until you get to know them and they will be based off their past history (mainly), and not what you "know" about them.
So as dawson and joey so beautifully showed.... don't get together with your soul mate it will not work.
find another person
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